HOW TO EMBRACE YOUR CURVES.

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At one point in life or the other, we have all been self-conscious about how we look and how others perceive us. Hollywood has created this ridiculous stereotype that for you to be viewed as sexy, you have to fit a particular body type. I have started several workout programs after watching Beyoncé’ singing or watching a movie where the actress looked for ridiculously hot. Those programs did not last long because I was trying to look like someone else. Everybody is unique, just because you have curves does not mean you are unhealthy. I have been with people who I admire because they workout, they eat a healthy balanced diet but they also do not deny themselves that treat one’s in a while. They have curves, and they are proud of them because they are living a full, well-balanced life. Getting to the point where you accept yourself for who you are and live your best life is hard, but we are here to help with that. We came up with several tips to help you embrace your curves.
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LEARN TO FLY.

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They say the hardest decision in life is whether to let go or give it another try.
The principle applies so much in relationships because we invest so much time and emotions into our relationship until they become part of us. Severing a relationship is like letting go of an extra limb you did not know you have.
Love makes us look at the world with rose colored glasses. Love makes us see our partner like they have a halo on their head. Our partner is great and they can never do anything wrong. If they do something wrong, it was probably not their fault. They were provoked.
I have seen good relationships that last over forty-five years and both couples are happy.
I have also seen bad relationships.
Relationships where people just stay because they have invested so much time and are “comfortable.”
A bad relationship where a partner is abused.
Abuse does not have to be physical.
Emotional abuse can also be as bad.
Where your partner makes you feel like they are doing you a favor by being with you.
They are the only ones who can love you and no one can love you.
They make you feel like you are inferior and not worthy. Emotional abuse can damage someone’s self-esteem and sense of self-worth.
Physical abuse can also be as bad, it can lead to both emotional and physical problems.
Leave the moment your partner snaps and slaps you, or raises their hand against you.
The feeling they should have towards you is to protect you, not harm you. Those who are physically abusive know how to apologize until you feel like they mean it when they say sorry when they do not.
They only thrive on the power they have over you, but they are not powerful you are.
You are strong, you are capable, you are lovable and you are worth everything right in the world.
You are an eagle, just waiting to fly.
Even an eagle that has been rained on can soar so high in the sky. Spreading its wings, seeking freedom. Powerful.
You will be fine on your own because you know how to love yourself.
You know how amazing you are.
You know how gifted you are.
And if you do not know it, stand in front of a mirror and remind yourself every day.
I am powerful.
I am strong.
I am amazing.
They cannot break my spirit and hope.
Do this until you believe.
Until it becomes part of you and you have faith.
You have hope.
Remember you can only make part of a strong team if you are strong yourself.

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